Avoidance


Conrad quits swimming, which is a reminder of Buck’s drowning. Conrad admits to Berger that, “(He doesn’t) want to swim anymore. (He) look(s) horrible, and (his) timing is for shit” (Guest 81). Conrad quits swimming, which is a reminder of Buck’s drowning.  He also unfriends all his own friends because they were “just” Buck’s friends. Even though Lazenby is trying to help him and even wants Conrad to rejoin the team. Lazenby is just another reminder of who Conrad lost  so he pushes him away, too. He is, “avoiding alls places, activities or people that remind you of the traumatic event” (Post-Tramatic).





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